Author Archives: jlittlefire

I am so sick of the worry in my life. It runs rampant in my mind and there seems no end to where it can take me. It’s as if it is infiltrating my entire being. My whole body feels it’s presence. And for what? Absolutely nothing! When I push to check it out, thereContinue reading “Worried Sick”

Hmmm…doesn’t that just bring a smile to your face? Or, are you thinking, get me out of here? Or is it, whatever, heard this song and dance before? How about shame? Anyone feel shame? I lived with it for years. It’s difficult to live with a mental illness and not have to deal with shame.Continue reading “Let’s Get Happy!”

I’m debating on what I will talk about today. Even as I write this, I haven’t decided how it is going to turn out or what I am going to say. I guess I will begin with my truth. I am very disturbed by the way our world and our country, in particular, is dealingContinue reading “FEAR”

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I honestly forget where I heard or found “Perfectly Imperfect” but it has stuck with me over the years. I am constantly reminding myself that perfection doesn’t exist. High Standards, however, are perfectly okay! The problem comes when those ideals actually interfere with our quality of life in a negative way. Some examples from myContinue reading “Perfectly Imperfect”

“Failure is at the beginning of all success; it’s how we learn and grow”, I used to tell my students, “Don’t be afraid of failure; be afraid of not trying“, I would say. But how did I honestly perceive my own failure? What did I still need to learn? It’s easy to read these quotesContinue reading “Meeting with Failure”

I just want to take a moment to thank everyone for “liking” my blogging page. I don’t get a lot of feedback but what I do get makes it worth writing. I want you to know that it is as therapeutic for me as it seems to be for some of you. Thanks for yourContinue reading “Thank You”

So, after writing Monday’s blog on ‘Worry’, I ended up with a worry hangover. My head grew heavy and my sight grew dim… and I mean really dim. I wrote a poem about my musings, if I can even call them that, but it grew so dark that I couldn’t let anyone in. I amContinue reading “Worry Hangover”

Today brings me to dealing with one of the most worrisome debilitating factors in my life. But I have to catch myself there, as thinking that way just makes the worry worse! I think if you asked most of my friends and relatives that they would say I worry way too much. But what isContinue reading “Me? Worried?”

My last post talked about being self-compassionate. I’d like to elaborate on the thoughts we talked about and introduce some self-nurturing activities. In the Behaviour-Thinking-Feeling triangle, today is about behaviour. I think if we can combine our thinking and behaviour that our feelings about ourselves will change. This is extremely important if we feel badlyContinue reading “Self-Nurturing Activities”