Author Archives: jlittlefire

Should I or should I not? Apologize…? I am a person who usually apologizes. I also, however, do it way too often. Do I even mean it? I started to think about this as I opened my mouth…sometimes yes and sometimes no. Then my mind begins to wander…what do others do? Well, it seems someContinue reading “All Apologies”

Humanity. What does it mean to you? Who are we as humans? This is the one thing we all have in common and yet, I believe, we often strip each other of that right…yes, the right to be human. We often expect perfection of ourselves and we unwittingly expect it of others also. Are weContinue reading “Humanity Disclosed”

What does it take to write a blog and keep it up? Ideas and an audience…if you’re missing one of these, it just doesn’t happen! Let’s start with ideas…easy at first, but then they wane…and not only the ability to create ideas but also the sense of making them interesting…will people get inspired? Is thereContinue reading “Losing Our Humanity”

Understanding Multiplicity: the property of being multiple; a large number or wide range (of something) (Cambridge Dictionary)  The Parts: younger versions of ourselves that still exist and play a role in our lives by acting on our behalf The Self: Confidence, Calmness, Creativity, Clarity, Curiosity, Courage, Compassion Connectedness, Presence, Patience, Perspective, Persistence, Playfulness In IFS:Continue reading “MULTIPLICITY Explained”

I have multiple parts. These parts engage with mySelf and others as I proceed through my days. What do I mean? Well, for example, I have a 2 yr old part who feels abandoned, guilty and lost in a world without connection. This was her experience when she was 2. She got stuck there andContinue reading “Multiplicity and MySelf”

It is a wise human that recognizes truth comes in many forms and perspectives. It is a dull one who experiences their own truth as the only way. Judgment, lies, hate. I like people who allow others to make mistakes. I like people who can admit that they are wrong. I also like people whoContinue reading “Full Force in the Wilderness”

They whispered to her, “You can’t withstand the storm”. She whispered back, “I am the storm”. Jake Remmington Being neck deep in the wilderness isn’t about drowning–not yet–but it is pretty damn close to living on the edge. I’m not talking about physical danger; I’m talking about emotional reckoning. A physiological response, we need toContinue reading “Neck Deep in the Wilderness”

Everyone’s perspective of stuff can be different towards the same experience. Never assume anything. Your perspective is yours. It might align with other people’s—friends, family etc.—but it might not. Do we turn our backs to the world because of what it has become….what has it become? A place for everybody? Or a place where debaucheryContinue reading “Chest Deep in the Wilderness”

I’m getting there…the honesty is beginning to spew out into my life. Today, I ask, “is there anyone who really does something selflessly?” And if they do, how is it affecting their minds and souls? Are they resentful? If they are, then it’s not really who they are but who they wish they were. IfContinue reading “Waste Deep in the Wilderness”

It’s really difficult to process life in general, and once you’re this far into the wilderness, it gets even worse. Joyous words for certain. Should life be difficult to navigate? Or should things run smoothly and in control? As much as that would be nice, it is not the way life goes when experiencing reality.Continue reading “Knee Deep in the Wilderness”